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Fifteen Years in Your Court

21 Friday Aug 2026

Posted by craigball in ai, Computer Forensics, E-Discovery, General Technology Posts, Law Practice & Procedure, Personal, Uncategorized

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ai, artificial-intelligence, blog, blogging, books, chatgpt, eDiscovery, generative-ai, law, life, Linked attachments, LLM, technology, writing

Fifteen years ago yesterday, frustrated that a legal-media conglomerate had put a decade of my articles behind a paywall, I started Ball in Your Court. From that christening to this quinceañera, I’ve penned 283 posts viewed 690,650 times. More than 2,000 people subscribe to receive them. I’m grateful to everyone who tolerates the updates and indebted to the roughly half who take the time to click through.

The numbers are gratifying, but the real reward has been hearing from readers—especially when you correct me, challenge me or tell me that something here helped you do the work better. I started the blog to share what I had learned; fifteen years later, I’ve learned at least as much from those who read it.

For reasons I can’t fathom, more than 6,000 people read my post of August 28, 2024 on the day it appeared. The key takeaway from that short post about linked attachments was: “We should never guess at what we can readily measure.”

For reasons I fully fathom, my most visited post was one published a year ago this week, marking the death of EDRM’s Kaylee Walstad. It has been a year of missing her every day. If you knew Kaylee, please pause a moment to remember her.

I christened this blog thusly:

The exabytes of digital information streaming about us today are rich rivers of evidence that will help us find the truth and move us to do justice more swiftly, more economically and more honorably than ever before. It will require every litigator to master new skills and tools, and alter the approaches and attitudes we bring to the adversarial process. We must reinvent ourselves to master modern evidence or be content with a justice system that best serves the well-heeled and the corrupt. The path to justice is paved with competent evidence and trod by counsel competent in its use.

I wrote that years before AI and deepfakes entered the conversation. It is truer now, and its mandate more compelling, when the justice system—and the Department of Justice—is deeply in thrall to the well-heeled and the corrupt.

AI can amplify competence, but it also allows anyone to feign it. Now, more than ever, we must continually reinvent ourselves to master modern evidence and be prepared to expose the fake and the fabulous.

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Kaylee Walstad, 1962-2025

19 Tuesday Aug 2025

Posted by craigball in E-Discovery, Personal

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family, life, love

Writing through tears, I am heartbroken to share that Kaylee Walstad has died suddenly and unexpectedly.

Kaylee was the loving, nurturing mom of our e-discovery community; our tireless cheerleader, stalwart friend, and steady heart. She showed up for everyone—eager to listen, to soothe, to lift burdens from others’ shoulders. She was generosity and kindness incarnate. Wise and warm, radiant and real, she was simply one of a kind.

For years, I’ve begun each day with Kaylee and her EDRM partner and compadre, Mary Mack. Weekdays, weekends, holidays—every morning began with Wordle and a few encouraging words from Kaylee. That small ritual became my daily “proof of life.” In the truest sense, the sun rose with Kaylee Walstad’s light.

Every Tuesday for five years, she was there for the EDRM community support call. And every time, despite her own challenges, Kaylee devoted herself to lifting the spirits of others. She cared, genuinely and deeply, radiating love the way a flame radiates heat. If you knew Kaylee, you know exactly what I mean. If you didn’t, I am sorry—because to know her was to feel lighter, better, more hopeful. She was “Minnesota Nice” to the bone.

Beyond our community, Kaylee was devoted to her two children and her sister. Weekends and holidays were joyous festivals of food, laughter, and family. She poured herself into them, and their triumphs were hers. I cannot begin to fathom the depth of their loss.

We will honor Kaylee’s professional achievements in due time, but right now my heart insists on pouring out love and admiration for the glorious woman who has left us so abruptly, and left us all immeasurably better for having known her.

In the words of poet Thomas Campbell: “To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.” Kaylee lives on in the hearts of all she lifted, encouraged, and loved.

Gregory Bufithis, one of Kaylee’s legions of admirers, shared a version of these comforting words:

Do not stand by my grave, and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am the thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints in snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle, autumn rain.
As you awake with morning’s hush,
I am the swift, up-flinging rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight,
I am the day transcending night.

Do not stand by my grave, and cry—
I am not there, I did not die.

— Clare Harner, Topeka, Kansas, December 1934

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