I’m saddened to share that Monica Bay, the forceful, revered former editor of Law Technology News (now Legaltech News) has died after a long, debilitating illness. Though a durable resident of New York City and Connecticut, Monica’s life ended in California where it began. Monica described herself as a “provocateur,” an apt descriptor from one gifted in finding the bon mot. Monica was a journalist with soaring standards whose writing exemplified the high caliber of work she expected from her writers. I cannot overstate Monica’s importance to the law technology community in her 17 years at the helm of LTN. Monica mentored multitudes and by sheer force of her considerable strength and will, Monica transformed LTN from an industry organ purveying press releases to an award-winning journal unafraid to speak truth to power.
In her time as editor, Monica was everywhere and indefatigable. Monica was my editor for much of her tenure at LTN including nine years where I contributed a monthly column she dubbed “Ball in Your Court” (see what I mean about her mastery of the well-turned phrase?) We had a complicated relationship and butted heads often, but my submissions were always better for Monica’s merciless blue pencil. I owe her an irredeemable debt. She pushed me to the fore. You wouldn’t be reading this now if it weren’t for Monica Bay’s efforts to elevate me. The outsize recognition and writing awards I garnered weren’t my doing but Monica’s. If life were a movie, Monica would be the influential publisher who tells the writer plucked from obscurity, “I made you and I can break you!” And it would be true.
This elegy would have been far better if she’d edited it.
Trying to illuminate Monica, I turned to Gmail to refresh my memory but backed off when I saw we’d shared more than 2,200 conversations since 2005. I’d forgotten how she once loomed so large in my life. In some of those exchanges, Monica generously called me, “hands down my best writer,” but I wouldn’t be surprised if she said that to everyone in her stable of “campers.” Monica knew how to motivate, cajole and stroke the egos of her contributors. She was insightful about ego, too.
In 2010 when I carped that there’s always too much to do, and always somebody unhappy with me, she counseled, “Like me, you are an intense personality, and we can be difficult to live with at times. but that intensity and drive is also what makes you who you are, why you are successful, and why you are a breathtakingly good writer. My favorite people in the world are ‘difficult.’”
I wince as I write that last paragraph because as much as she was brilliant in managing egos, Monica didn’t love that part of her work. She confided, “I think we have to be mindful that we don’t exercise our egos in a way that constrains — or worse case, cripples — those around us. That’s the hard part.”
Monica observed of a well-known commentator of the era, “he wouldn’t be able to write if he had to excise ‘I’ from his vocabulary… he annoys me more than the Red Sox or Jacobs Fields gnats.”
That reminds me that Monica had a personal blog called “The Common Scold.” She named it for a Puritan-era cause of action where opinionated women were punished by a dunk in a pond. I mostly remember it for its focus on New York Yankees baseball, which became a passion for Monica when she moved east despite a lifelong disinterest in sports. Monica, who insofar as I knew, never married, often referred to herself in the Scold as “Mrs. Derek Jeter.” She was quirky that way and had a few quirky rules for writers. One was that the word “solution” was banned, BANNED, in LTN.
To her credit, Monica Bay wasn’t afraid to nip at the hand that feeds. Now, when every outlet has bent to the will of advertisers, Monica’s strict journalistic standards feel at once quaint and noble. Consider this excerpt from her 2009 Editorial Guidelines:
“Plain English: Law Technology News is committed to presenting information in a manner that is easily accessible to our readers. We avoid industry acronyms, jargon, and clichés, because we believe this language obfuscates rather than enhances understanding.
For example, the word “solution” has become meaningless and is banned from LTN unless it’s part of the name of a company. Other words we edit out: revolutionary, deploy, mission critical, enterprise, strategic, robust, implement, seamless, initiative, -centric, strategic [sic], and form factor! We love plain English!”
Monica was many things more than simply an industry leader, from a wonderful choral singer to the niece of celebrated actress, Elaine Stritch. She was my champion, mother figure, friend and scold. I am in her debt. And you are, too, Dear Reader, for Monica Bay pushed through barriers that fell under her confident stride.
Fifteen years ago, when Monica lost her father, and my mother was dying, we supported each other. Monica called her dad’s demise the “great gift of dementia from the karma gods. No pain, just a gentle drift to his next destination.” That beautifully describes her own shuffle off this mortal coil. As the most loving parting gift I can offer my late, brilliant editor, I cede to her those last lovely words, “just a gentle drift to [her] next destination.”
[I have no information about services or memorials, but I look forward to commemorating Monica’s life and contributions with others who loved and admired her]
A nice tribute from Bob Ambrogi: https://www.lawnext.com/2023/10/i-am-deeply-saddened-to-report-the-death-of-monica-bay-friend-mentor-and-role-model-to-so-many-in-legal-tech.html and a sweeet remembrance from Mary Mack: https://edrm.net/2023/10/the-warmest-and-most-uncommon-scold/